Do Well By Doing Good

A question I often discuss with companies I coach and train is “How do you define success?” Success looks different for everyone, both personally and professionally. It may defined by financial success or personal achievement and status, or perhaps having strong relationships, spiritual connection, health, or travel. We could all come up with our own version of what success looks like as it is uniquely personal.

For me, success is a blend of several things. My relationship with God is foundational—I see myself as one of His children, and this guides much of who I am and what I strive to become. Then, there’s family. I place a high value on quality AND quantity time with those I love. My health and wellness are a priority, too, because taking care of myself physically helps me show up fully in life. And yes, I also want to accomplish big things professionally and financially. I believe these aspirations all matter because each adds meaning to how I live and spend my time.

I do not think it is bad to want all of these things. We can't always focus on just one thing because our lives are made up of so many little things. For example, as much as I would like to dedicate more time to writing my book, I am also a mom to a 3 year old who is my best friend and I want to spend all my time with her. As much as I would like spend 2 hours a day working out to have optimal health and strength, I also have to provide for my family financially.

I don't think we will ever find a true “balance” of everything we have to do and want to do. But I do think we can find a great “blend” of all of these things. Because all of these things are how I choose to spend my time each day. (I have an awesome friend who is about to launch her podcast on this topic. So excited or you Sarah!)

You might hear voices suggesting that wanting all of these things is “too much” or “greedy,” especially when it comes to money, fame, or ambition. But I believe in finding a blend of what matters. I want everyone to know I place the highest priority on God and my family. That is what I value the most. But I also have high aspirations in career and money. I think that these things can all be good if we place them in our lives with the right priority and intention.

Recently, at the Women in HVACR conference, Amanda Brinkman shared a keynote that perfectly captures this mindset. She calls it “Do Well By Doing Good.” Amanda’s message is about embracing the idea that it’s okay to want to do well financially, as long as we’re also doing good along the way. Whatever our pursuits, we can still be kind, supportive, connected, and generous. That’s what gives true meaning to our success. Without these qualities, ambition becomes hollow.

In the end, it’s about making sure that we’re elevating others and uplifting those around us. Success is more than just achieving personal goals—it’s about having a positive impact along the way.

Moral of the Story: Decide what success looks like for you and then work to align how you spend your time with the things that will fulfill you personally and professionally. When you set ambitious goals, remember to do good as you strive to do well. Success is really about uplifting others- which could be in the walls of your own home, in the workplace, community, or world in general. 🙂 

Until next week!

Erica ❤️🌺