Mommy, come play!

Is it just me, or is time flying by faster than usual? How is it already November?! As a mom, I feel like I’m watching my three-year-old grow up in fast-forward mode. Every day, she learns something new, says a new word, or surprises me with her latest antics. Sometimes, I wish I could play back the days in slow motion, just to fully soak in each precious moment. Watching her grow is beautiful.

She’s becoming more independent every day. There are moments when she wants to do things entirely on her own, like driving her little battery-operated Tesla or trying to shop at Costco without my help! But at other times, she reaches for my hand, like when we’re trick-or-treating, or wants me right beside her when watching her favorite movies. She’ll look at me and say, “Mom, come sit,” and I can’t help but smile.

This push-pull of independence and dependence is fascinating. She’s figuring out the world, deciding when she needs me and when she doesn’t. And every time she says, “Mommy, come play,” I make it a point to drop what I’m doing and join her, whether it’s coloring, dancing, making a cake, or chasing her around. I know that one day she might not ask as often, and I treasure these moments more than words can say.

Having battled cancer, I’ve gained a deep appreciation for these little slices of life. I’m grateful beyond measure for the chance to live fully and to be present with my daughter. So, whenever possible, I blend my responsibilities with motherhood—whether it’s exercising together, letting her sit under my desk as I work, or bringing her along when I travel for work. Being her mom is my biggest priority, and I want to make sure that no matter how busy life gets, she always feels that she’s at the center of it.

Motherhood is the most important role I have. I know everyone’s journey is different, and I share my story with deep respect for others’ experiences and choices. Parenting is unique to each of us. My choices aren’t meant to minimize anyone else’s path, just to express my own.

Moral of the Story: We only get one life. As we go through our busy days, it’s worth asking ourselves: What are we making our biggest priority? Life is filled with demands—work, health, family, church, daily tasks—but when we intentionally weave our priorities into these routines, they become part of every experience. This kind of life doesn’t happen by accident; it requires thought, planning, and a commitment to live with purpose. So, make sure your priorities are clear, and let them guide how you spend your time each day.

Erica ❤️🌺