It's my turn!

Lessons from a 3 year old

My little daughter, Arwen, is at that wonderful stage where she wants to be involved in everything. If I’m doing something—anything—she wants a part in it. I love watching her curiosity burst through as she eagerly learns, helps, and tries new things.

For example, today, as I was peeling carrots, she came barreling into the kitchen, shouting, “It’s my turn! It’s my turn!” Naturally, I handed her a peeler, and she enthusiastically peeled that carrot down to nothing. Then, with her newfound skill, she peeled five more—saving me time in the process!

This happens all the time. Whether I’m washing dishes, emptying the dishwasher, or folding laundry, she jumps in with the same determination—“It’s my turn! Me, me, meeeeee!” She’ll grab her stool, climb up, or cling to my leg until I let her help.

And honestly? I love it. These simple moments—coloring together, cleaning the kitchen, folding laundry—are time well spent. We laugh, we talk, and we share love in the everyday.

But what strikes me most is the lesson hidden in her eagerness. Arwen isn’t afraid to claim her turn. She doesn’t hesitate. She doesn’t wonder if she’s good enough or if someone else should go first. She simply steps in and does it.

I want to be more like that. Not in a way that pushes others aside, but in a way that’s bold and intentional. To stop waiting. To step up when it’s time. Maybe it’s finally making that family trip happen. Maybe it’s shedding those last few pounds of baby weight. Maybe it’s asking for the promotion, taking on a new challenge, or reaching out for help to get to the next level.

Because the truth is, we have to make our own turns. If there’s something we want, we have to claim it. We have to be bold enough to say, “It’s my turn.”

Not everything in life is in our control. But every day, I realize how much actually is.

Moral of the Story: Is it your turn for something new? What does your next level look like? Whether you’re content with where you are or ready for a change, it’s your turn to take the reins. Be bold. Jump in. Go after it—just like Arwen, who never waits for permission to make things happen. I love her so much.

Until next time,

Erica ❤️🌺